I arrived just in the nick of time and was greeted personally at the door by Boaz, and pointed to a chair selected just for me designed to keep the front of the room packed completely (all chairs full). And, he proceeded to offer suggestions on how to run a good meeting. Here are a few:
- No empty chairs (make the room feel full to increase engagement).
- Don't make people sit for more than 30-40 minutes. (we got up twice during the session, once to shake hands with our neighbors, another time to stretch).
- No distractions.
- As the presenter you must be enthusiastic (if you aren't - fake it until you are!).
- The group runs at the speed of the leader.
- You are in the people business (everyone is, so get good at it!).
- You are genuinely interested in other people (you need to be able to relate to them to create rapport).
- Everyone's favorite topic is themselves (so ask about them!).
- People are as interested in you as you are in them.
Other lessons he peppered into the presentation (and had us write it down):
- I will have a good time.
- If it's not what I want, I won't say it (meaning, don't go around saying negative things like, "business is slow" Instead, if someone asks about your business, say, "UNBELIEVABLE!" - one word...which covers everything...).
- Words are previews of things to come (so select the good ones).
- I'll fake it until I make it.
- It's easy for me to change. (Affirmation!)
Two books he absolutely recommends for improving business and your life: Think and Grow Rich and How to Win Friends and Influence People. He said he has read them every month for 5 years (60 times each).
I can't possibly cover all that he did?but, suffice it to say, another great presentation put on by Vistage International.
Great work, OIA!
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